Darrell Brazell, Director of New Hope Fellowship and Ministries: "This is something I would love for every woman to hear. I lead groups for men wrestling with sexual addiction and have found that 9 out 10 men come to me because their wife finally got enough information and courage to be able to say "Either get help or get out."
Because of that, I have been on a mission of "protecting Eve" by trying to speak honestly and tell women that "It isn't their fault," "The problem is real" and "You aren't crazy." My apology is something I gave to the Women of Virtue Conference in Kansas City last year and it is my apology to my wife, my daughter and to all women on behalf of every man who has strayed."
This is a 'must hear' message, whether you're a Christian or not! One of our own SSD team members viewed Darrell's video and openly shares her honest review:
I remember that time in our lives and the gut feeling I had that "something" was not right.
The answer from my husband was always, "there's nothing wrong, why do you keep asking me that??"
When the truth came out, it was then hard to believe anything that was said to me. I have heard the words before, "It isn't your fault," "You didn't do anything to cause this." It's very hard to believe those words when the hurt is so deep.
After listening to this and being able to hear it from another man being said not only to his wife and daughter, but to all women, somehow makes it more real and believable.
I feel this is a powerful message that given to the right people at the right time can bring much healing. The healing process from “porn” hurt is long and hard. The forgiveness seemed to come first but the hurt is what takes so long to heal.
I feel I have made another stride in complete healing and have received additional confirmation for my decision to stay with my husband.
What are your thoughts after hearing Darrell's personal apology?